“When I first met Titus, I think he probably would have rather poked himself in the eye with an ice pick than stand up and talk to people,” Darren, a Trail Life leader in Denton, Texas, recalls.
Titus was quiet and a bit reserved when he first walked into a Trail Life Troop meeting. No one would have looked at him and imagined a future firefighter-paramedic—the kind of man who would one day run toward fires, wrecks, medical emergencies, and the worst moments in other people’s lives.
But protectors are not always loud.
Being a protector has little to do with personality and everything to do with conviction. It is not measured by how quickly a boy speaks up in a room. It is measured by whether he learns to stand steady when others need him.
Titus was shaped slowly—around campfires, in patrol meetings, through first aid training, service projects, uncomfortable leadership roles, and the steady expectations of men who saw more in him than he saw in himself.
Looking back now, the signs were always there.
Titus’s Troop had long taken flag retirements seriously. Almost every campout included them. Worn American flags were retired with care, dignity, and solemnity. As Titus began planning his Freedom Award project, he noticed a need in his community. People had worn or damaged American flags, but they did not always know where to take them.
So, for his Freedom Award service project, Titus decided to build a place for them.
He designed a flag retirement collection box himself, measuring and drawing up plans in his garage. He gathered other Trailmen for work days. They cut wood, sanded, painted, adjusted, corrected mistakes, and finished the project together.
Then Titus contacted the fire department and arranged for the box to be placed in the downtown fire museum. It was not just a symbolic project. It solved a real problem.
And years later, the box is still there. Titus still checks on it. Sometimes he stops by, finds it full, empties it, and gets the flags back to the Troop so they can be retired properly.
Even now that he’s earned the award and the ceremony is long over, Titus keeps on quietly serving. That is what protectors do. They notice what needs care. They honor what others overlook. They keep showing up when no one is counting hours or giving kudos.
It takes leadership skills and the ability to work effectively with people to pull off a project like Titus’s Freedom project. A naturally shy boy like Titus didn’t develop those skills overnight. During his time in Trail Life, he served in nearly every major youth leadership role his Troop offered: Patrol Leader, Quartermaster, Second Officer, and First Officer.
That was not the path he would have chosen on his own.
“I think I enjoyed it once I got into it,” he said, “but I had to be pushed into it.”
That push mattered.
Titus watched other boys his age step into responsibility. He watched leaders like Darren and Clint encourage him to take ownership, solve problems, and make decisions. They did not treat him like a child who needed every answer handed to him. They treated him like a young man who could learn to carry responsibility.
When Titus brought problems to adult leaders, hoping they would simply tell him what to do, they often answered with questions.
“What are you going to do?”
“What do you think?”
At the time, it was hard. But later, he saw what they were doing: they were teaching him to think, decide, act, and to take ownership of the outcome.
“We always used the patrol method,” Titus said. “You’ve got to deal with problems as they come, work within the system with other guys, figure it out and make a decision and then stick with that decision—even if it doesn’t work like you thought it would. Take responsibility. You can’t blame anybody else.”
Those lessons would follow him far beyond campouts and meetings. A young man who learns to make decisions in the rain can become a man who makes decisions in a crisis.
One campout tested Titus in a way he still remembers. The forecast called for rain, but nothing too serious. Then the storm grew worse. Rain hammered the tents. Water rose. The campsite flooded. The boys were wet, cold, tired, and complaining.
Then, around midnight, the adult leaders came out and told everyone they had to pack up and evacuate.
Titus was serving as First Officer. He did not want the responsibility in that moment. He remembers thinking, “I don’t want to do this. I want to quit.”
But he didn’t quit. He did his job and helped get the Troop packed up and moved safely into a nearby church building. They spread sleeping bags across the floor and turned a miserable night into a memory they would later laugh about.
Titus learned that leadership does not pause because everyone is tired. Responsibility does not disappear because conditions are poor. People still need direction. Decisions still need to be made. Someone still has to stay steady.
Today, Titus works in a profession where that lesson matters every shift.
When Titus’s Troop practiced first aid, he got really into it. He liked the practical nature of it. He liked learning what to do when something went wrong. Later, he took a wilderness first responder course. His first job was as a lifeguard.
Then, during one advancement requirement, Titus had to research a career—what the requirements were, what the pay looked like, and what it would realistically take to enter the field. He chose paramedic. “It’s always kind of been in the back of my head,” he said.
Today, Titus serves with the Denton Fire Department. He started in 2023 and enjoys the unpredictability of the work: never knowing what kind of call will come next, having to assess, adapt, and solve problems in real time.
When asked what drew him to the work, Titus replied, “I feel like it’s a good calling if you want to serve people,” he said, “and try to do the best you can to make their day better when they’re not having a good day.”
That sentence says a great deal. A protector is not merely someone with strength, training, or courage. A protector is someone willing to enter another person’s bad day and make it better if he can. To stand between pain, evil, and hardship and the person you are called to protect. It’s about self-sacrifice, servant leadership.
Titus’s servant heart was on display years ago as a Trailman in many small, quiet ways, before he ever placed the flag retirement boxes outside of the fire museum.
Titus’s Troopmaster, Clint, said, “I would see TItus’ servant heart a lot when new kids would come along. Titus was one of those guys who you could just reach out to and be like ‘hey, can you take this new guy under your wing?’ He just knew what to do, how to make them comfortable, incorporate them. He would just do it and you’d hardly see him for the rest of the meeting. That was just his style.”
As America celebrates its 250th Independence Day, we remember that liberty is not preserved by slogans alone.
It is carried forward by men who serve. Men who honor what is sacred. Men who protect the vulnerable. Men who use strength with humility. Men who understand that gifts from God—courage, skill, influence, position, and ability—are entrusted to them for the good of others and the glory of God.
Titus’s story shows that legacy in a modern key.
Earlier this month, we told the story of John Hancock, a man who was so much more than a memorable signature. Hancock was a man to whom much was given, and who used what he was given for the good of others.
As America looks forward to the next 250 years, it is clear that we’ll need more men like that. We need to raise up a generation of men who are ready to use their strength to protect, to answer the call when it comes. Because one day, the call will come. It may sound like a fire alarm. It may look like a little boy standing alone at a meeting. It may be your wife and children needing someone to lean on. A tattered flag worthy of honor. A stranger having the worst day of his life.
May we raise sons who understand that whatever God places in their hands is meant to be offered back in service. May we raise sons who use strength to shelter, position to serve, and courage to protect. May we raise sons of liberty who grow into sons of legacy.
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